Childhood sweethearts’ - "Love at first Sight"

 

 

 

A great person once said, “It was love at first sight”. I always wonder who that person was!

When was the last time you felt that?

Mine started when I was in the 2^nd standard. Too early you might say, but that’s how you feel when you fall in love. It was definitely love at first sight. His name let’s say was Sharad, a newly joined dentist at the clinic that I was a regular to. He was tall, fair, curly haired, oval face and so sweet. No boy had ever been so sweet to me and definitely had paid so much attention.

It was like an “event”, going to the dentist. It meant that I will be meeting him today and boy was I already blushing. He was a sweetheart. Always so happy to see me amidst the so many patients sitting in the clinic. He knew exactly the right things to say to me (like open your mouth, do aaaa and eeee: D don’t get pervy here. He’s a dentist remember?) But whatever, let’s not spoil the mood now shall we ;)

He made sure I did everything he wanted me to. And I would smile and giggle and show a few pranks. He laughed and carried me around for a while. (Don’t really remember this part, but what the hell! It’s all about love, making you go blind and not remembering too many things right? :P)

Anyways, like me, I’m sure you too have had someone in your life. Very special and dear. Good feelings, some sort of feelings, weird feelings etc. but something that made you realise that there’s some hormone that makes you feel that way in your body. It makes you dreamy, feel awesome and dance on the roof, in the rain.

I fell in love with a dentist. I don’t think I knew the meaning of the word Love, then, but sure was a great feeling. Made me feel special and it felt good. For once someone liked me just the way I was. Nothing to change and nothing to be hidden. I mean, a dental clinic, he would see my cavities, the worst thing really, I should hide myself under the bed and never come out. But nope, I didn’t even feel that way. So blind I was. Goodness, what a love it was!

One fine day, I had gone to the clinic with my mum. She had an appointment with another doctor. There I was, sitting in a small chair, next to the one mum was getting treated on. A curtain that hid the view from other patients. I heard his voice on the other side of the curtain and hearing his voice, made my senses so happy. It was like, there was a symphony in my head. I just wanted to jump out from behind the curtains and tell him, ‘hey, I’m here’ J

He was talking pretty loud to another patient. The patient giggled. The patient was some girl, of the same age he was or at least as tall as he was. I was in 2^nd standard. How tall could I be? L

The girl was on fire, you see, he was cracking a lot of jokes and using most of the dialogues that he had used on me. Damn you DOCTOR! The girl could not stop laughing. What a stupid girl, making noise in the clinic, when other patients are in so much pain ;)

‘I thought we had something special. I thought I was your special girl’, such thoughts ran in my head. My heart crushed alright. It crushed real bad. Bad enough that the pain caused me to shed a tear. Silently of course. And that was my first heart break as well. I didn’t jump out from the curtain. He did see me later with my mum and gave me a smile, but it was too hurting to return it back. Way too embarrassed, I just hid behind mum’s saree and walked out with her. Never thought of him I guess. Or don’t they say, that after a trauma, the patient tends to forget a few details. I guess that’s what happened with me. It’s all blurry and I’m glad about that. The End.

I did realise that he is a doctor and he’s meant to be nice to all of his patients. There was nothing special about me or in me, except of course, cavities. It got better from then on. I had sort of grown that day. I definitely realised that everyone was playing their part and definitely stopped making a fool of myself. I wish I could say, that I stopped finding love, but then that would be so wrong ;)

I did see him after almost ten years, still working in the clinic. Turns out he had returned after a vacation. He had a moustache. All I could think of was, wow! Did I really fall for that guy: P I wanted to talk to him, but he seemed busy and I had an appointment with a different doctor. Was wondering how this new doctor would be, I had to get a root canal, and it’s painful. But god had answered my prayers, he had sent the most handsome doctor, ever, to do it. BLUSH!!!

PS: the new term coined for this is “crush” but I’d rather maintain the saying, “it’s the thought that counts” :D

Well, that’s my story of “love at first sight”. Sure would like to hear one from you.

"My Superman"

 

 

 

As a kid, I always enjoyed the times I spent with my grandpa. He was a freedom fighter, he told us fascinating stories of how he and his friends fought for our freedom and ended up in a jail more than once. I was so proud of my grandpa that I would never miss an opportunity of talking about him to all of my friends in school. He always got an invite from schools and other organisations to hoist the flag on Independence Day and give away a few words of advice.

My grandfather, a freedom fighter was also known for his generosity in our locality. There was not a single passer-by who didn’t know of him. They always made sure they visited him during the day, have a chat, share some news and views, a cup of coffee and a huge smile on their faces.

He always had a smile on his face. He was a man, independent in many ways. He did carpentry, he even had his own set of tools, ready to repair anything that needed his attention. I enjoyed helping him while he mixed cement and patched it around a few broken walls. The way he kept the rats from digging holes in the small godown we had that stored loads of banana plantains, gunny bags and anything worth a storage.

I remember hiding there while we played hide & seek with my brothers and sisters. It was always dark, chilly and smelt a mixture of the dampness, old newspapers and dusty gunny bags. You could spend an entire day excavating the place, listening to the stories he had to say for each of those items stored inside and all that we did was stare at him with wonder. He was a Superman.

My brother Varun and I enjoyed our special time with grandpa. Every Monday at 7.30, soon after the broadcast of the local news on TV, he and I would sit out in the verandah, with taatha (grandpa) sitting on a chair, smoking his Ganesh beedi, to listen to the most amazing horror stories. Yep believe it or not, the man who fought against the Britishers for freedom, had a few encounters with the devil as well. Wow! He’s such a brave man.

Before I get into details, let me describe him to you. He always wore khaki. A pair of white pants and a white half sleeved shirt. A sleeveless khaki jacket that was mostly green or brown in colour. This jacket had 4 pockets outside and 2 secret pockets on the inside. He always kept a matchbox and a beedi packet in one of the lower outer pockets. And his money was always in the secret pockets. Only Varun and I had access to those pockets. I’m sorry, but I have to gloat here ;)

We were 5 cousins, my sister and I born to my mother and 3 brothers from my mom’s elder sister. Our age group differed by a year or 2 from each other. We played together and danced together. We had a lot of ek minute contests between each other. Varun always won, when it came to “how many glasses of water can you drink in a minute’. Boy, he could drink. We were the Panch Pandavas of the house. Varun definitely being the Bhima: D

Coming back to my grandpa and his tale of ghost encounters. He had this talent of creating an interest out of nothing at all. He spun the stories well enough to keep us sitting as closer to him as possible. Sometimes to an extent of hugging his legs while he narrated his stories.

My grandpa, was a skinny man, with dimples on either sides of his cheeks. Really deep dimples. He had a few teeth and they were definitely long. He had lost a few canines wich made him gat toothed. He had a beautiful long nose and white stubbles, he was a smart man, fair complexioned, silver haired and grey eyes to make him look extra handsome. No wonder he had 2 wives: P

The story begins when he had a small grocery store in the heart of the city. It was a market place, with a theatre at the corner of the road, a fort opposite to his store and also a hospital closeby. Since during that time the late night show would finish only by 11.30 – 12.00 midnight, he kept his store open for those customers who would have their last few smokes for the night before they retired to their houses respectively.

So grandpa, always closed his shop much later than the other shopkeepers in the venue. He was helped by his younger brother in the store. They both would close the shop and go to a nearby pond at the back of the hospital to take a leak before getting back to their house. This pond was also closeby to the morgue of the hospital. The pond was shadowed by a few coconut trees. It was almost 1 in the morning, pitch dark in those days due to shortage of street lamps, chilly and dead silent. He happened to go near the pond and just when he got busy to take a leak, a handful of small jelly stones fell on the back of his head. Since it was dark, he couldn’t make out who threw them at him. He looked right in the direction from where the stones fell, but couldn’t find anyone there. He yelled on top of his voice asking who it was, but no one replied. They had these small kerosene lamps that they carried around with which he tried to see if anyone else was present apart from his brother and himself. But he couldn’t find anyone.

Suddenly, out of nowhere, a black dog jumped towards him, with such strength that its legs hit his cheek hard enough to break a few of his teeth, making his mouth all bloody and yikes. He mistook the dog to be his own pet dog called tiger, and kept calling out his name hoping it would return back to him. He was so furious at what it had done, that he stormed back home, fuming with anger, ready to give the dog a piece of mind. He yelled at my granny asking for the dog, and why she hadn’t kept it tied at home. She was equally shocked to see his bloody face and to hear that the culprit behind that was tiger, since he was tied to the window of their house before everyone had slept. He saw the dog sleeping peacefully and realised that it was no dog that had attacked him with stones and broken his tooth, it was a GHOST!!!

Varun and I gulped our fear and asked grandpa to open his mouth and show us the teeth that he had lost in this encounter. And held our breath when he displayed his open mouth for both of us. And then it was the end of story time. Grandpa, having amazed us with his tale, would place a 10 paise coin in both of our hands. With a smile on our faces, and a satisfaction of time well spent and invested, we would run back to our houses. I would retell mummy the entire story and ask her if she knew about it and exhibit the ten paise that he had given to me.

The beautiful aluminium coin, shaped as a flower petal, would then be flashed to my sister to make her jealous and show, what she had missed. The smallest pleasures in collecting money and making it become 25 paise, just so I could buy a milk burfi, was always ecstatic.

Thus, my grandpa, a freedom fighter, a story teller, an entertainer and a man loved by all in our society, was definitely the best prize of my life. It’s been more than fifteen years that I lost him, but even today, his jacket hangs at the very same spot at my granny’s place where he always hung them. And the many tales of his bravery, encounters with the British and the ghosts, stays alive in my heart.